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Stop Starting Your Monday Wrong: The Only Morning Ritual You Need for any day of the week!
- Brian Tomasio
- Mar 17
- 3 min read

Let's be honest. Most people start their day on autopilot, reacting to whatever life throws at them. Emails, news, social media... it's a recipe for stress and a guaranteed way to lose control before you even have your coffee. As a hypnotherapist with over 30 years in the field, I've seen what works – and what doesn't. This isn't about fluffy self-help; it's about leveraging how your brain actually functions.
The First 30 Minutes: Your Brain's Golden Window
Forget the snooze button. Those first 30 minutes after you wake up are critical. Your subconscious mind is incredibly receptive – it's like fertile ground, ready to absorb whatever you feed it. What you choose to plant in that window will determine the entire course of your day.
This isn't just my opinion. A 2021 study in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health confirmed that morning routines have a significant impact on mood and cognitive function
In other words, a good morning routine isn't a luxury; it's a necessity.
The Two-Part Formula: Gratitude and Self-Affirmation
Here's the core of the ritual. It's deceptively simple, but don't underestimate its power:
* Gratitude: Before your feet even hit the floor, think of three things you're grateful for. Seriously, anything. Your health, your family, the roof over your head. This immediately shifts your focus from lack to abundance. It primes your brain for positivity.
* "I Love You": This is where most people stumble. Look yourself in the mirror – directly in your eyes – and say "I love you" ten times. Yes, it might feel awkward. Yes, you might feel silly. Do it anyway. This isn't about vanity; it's about dismantling the negative self-talk that's been running on a loop in your head, probably for years. It builds a foundation of self-acceptance, which is essential for any real progress.
The Louise Hay Power Affirmation: Supercharging Your Subconscious
After the "I love you" exercise, you're ready for the main event. This affirmation, popularized by the late Louise Hay, is a game-changer:
"All is well, everything is working out for my highest good, and out of this situation, only good will come. I am safe.”
This isn't just wishful thinking. It's a direct command to your subconscious mind. It helps you release fear, embrace trust, and cultivate a deep sense of inner peace. You're actively reprogramming your default settings from anxiety to optimism.
Real Results: From Overwhelmed to In Control.
I've seen this work time and time again. Take Sarah, for example (her name's changed, of course). She came to me completely overwhelmed, constantly anxious, and feeling defeated before her day even started.
We worked on a comprehensive hypnotherapy plan, but this morning ritual was a cornerstone. At first, she was resistant – the "I love you" part felt especially forced. But she stuck with it.
Within weeks, the shift was undeniable. She was calmer, more focused, and – most importantly – felt in control of her day. The affirmations, combined with the hypnotherapy, helped her break free from limiting beliefs that had been holding her back for years.
Debunking the Myths: This Isn't "Woo-Woo"
Let's address the elephant in the room. Some people dismiss this kind of thing as "woo-woo" nonsense. Those people are missing the point.
Hypnotherapy, at its core, is about understanding the mind-body connection. It's about using the power of suggestion to influence the subconscious. This morning ritual is essentially self-hypnosis. It's a consistent, daily practice that reinforces positive beliefs and behaviors. It's practical psychology.
Your Action Plan: Make This Ritual Your Own.
Ready to take control of your mornings? Here's how:
* Set Your Alarm (and Stick to It): Decide on a wake-up time and commit. No more hitting snooze.
* Phone on DND: Eliminate distractions. Your emails and social media can wait.
* Gratitude First: Three things, before you get out of bed.
* Mirror Work: Ten "I love you's," straight to your eyes.
* The Affirmation: Recite the Louise Hay affirmation, or another one that resonates with you, but make sure it's powerful and positive.
The Bottom Line: Your Day, Your Choice.
You have a choice. You can continue to start your day on the back foot, reacting to whatever comes your way. Or you can take control, leverage the power of your subconscious, and set yourself up for a day of purpose, positivity, and resilience.
Consistency is the key. The more you practice this ritual, the more profound the benefits will be.
Ready to go deeper? Book a free consultation today. Let's talk about how hypnotherapy can unlock your full potential.

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